09 Apr Pick a partner as wild as you
Omg this woman drives me wild! Not that like, cheeky! Well maybe 😉
No, I mean she gets right under my skin haha. And don’t worry, she says the same about me!! We’re in what you might call ‘a conscious relationship’. I’m awake. She’s awake. And there ain’t no hiding!!
If you know us or follow us you’ll probably see we’re POLAR OPPOSITES.
I won’t tell you how. If you follow us both, you’ll have a sense of that.
The point is: We have different models of the world and when we fight, we both have a different go to default response.
All of us learnt models growing up. How to talk about money. A woman’s role vs a man’s role. How to deal with an argument. Work ethic. Play time. Family time…the problem arises when (a) you think everyone has the same model as you and (b) you think your model is right.
Me and Alice are good at fighting. We give each other space to vent. We’re okay spending time apart to cool down. And we always try to see it from the other person’s perspective when we’re done. Maybe we can get better at this but come on, we’re only human haha 😉
Being in a conscious relationship is HARD. Being with a wild woman like Alice is challenging. (Yes yes I’m sure she’d say the same about me hehe.)
But this is why we’re here; to grow, to learn, to evolve. And you can’t do that when you’re happy to avoid the fight.⠀
So Alice my love…here’s to many more fights to come 😉
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